Also you have people like my ex girlfriend, who married a guy and 2 years later, with a new daughter at home, he signed a contact to fight and died within a month. Rather than blame Putin etc, his wife,a psychologist and counsellor, created an organisation to assist those whose husbands or sons have gone to war and to deal with grief if they lose them. Her posts have been every nation has been forged in war and my husband was a hero. Zero reflection that the war might actually be wrong and her husband died in vain. And she now markets this and has been in TV documentaries, magazine articles and met numerous politicians.